Showing posts with label teaching independence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label teaching independence. Show all posts

Monday, 27 February 2012

Daiso Shop

Yesterday we went to a new shop from Japan called Daiso, it's fantastic!
Everything is $2.80 and they have so many handy products and cute little things!

We bought a few things for the boys:


A miniature magnetic dartboard. This is great for number practice! JJ has to say what numbers he hits, and which number is the highest!


Training chopsticks!!! JJ had a great time with some chunks of biscuit on a plate and these chopsticks. He can use them!

And possibly my favourite, cute velour hedgehogs so the boys can have fun helping to dust!

Saturday, 25 February 2012

Kids Pocket Money

It all started a month ago when JJ asked if he could work so he could buy a doughnut from the local bakery.

We had to start thinking of ways for him to earn pocket money!

Initially we made the mistake of paying him to tidy his room. Soon he expected payment whenever he cleaned his room! We ditched that idea quickly!

Finally we realised we needed to make a clear definition between responsibilities and 'special' work that is rewardable with pay. Here's what we've come up with:

Every day responsibilities (chores) for a three and two year old
- Make bed (Mummy helps SamSam)
- Get changed (Mummy helps SamSam with his top)
- Hang up pyjamas behind the door
- Bring breakfast cereal, bowls and spoons to the table
- Put dirty bowls and spoons in kitchen sink
- Put away toys after playing with them

JJ making his bed
SamSam putting his breakfast bowl, spoon and bib at the kitchen sink

SamSam wiping down the table after putting away the Playdough
Kids Pocket Money:
- Sort and fold JJ & SamSam's clothes
- Perform songs

Kids pocket money : folding clothes

I've labelled four boxes - 'JJ's clothes', 'SamSam's clothes', 'Pyjamas', and 'Socks & undies'.

The boys fold and sort them into the right box. It's quite a long task, and requires good concentration, and excellent fine motor skills. JJ gets 50cents for completing this task. SamSam gets about a quarter of this as he hasn't got the dexterity to fold clothes properly yet.

The last method of kids pocket money - performing songs for us - we haven't started yet, but we want to encourage them to have the courage to talk and perform in public. We think this could be a good way of getting used to eg. public speaking. We think that when they are older they can do street busking to earn some pocket money!

JJ now has his eyes set on a new toy train, it could be another 10 weeks for this to eventuate, I hope he persists!

 Video of JJ folding tshirts with Daddy voiceover!

Thursday, 1 December 2011

Two Playgrounds

It's 6:40am, the start of a new day and SamSam is demanding "cold milk". He wakes up JJ by turning on a lamp shining directly on his face, and the day has begun.

Daddy plays Kerplunk with them, and it's not even 8am! How lucky they are!

We head down to the local bakery as a family for some brekky. We ate doughnuts at the bakery, the boys pushed the little shopping trolleys around the supermarket, we picked up some mail at our friend's house, sat outside a cafe for coffee and chocolate eclair, visited the second-hand charity shop. A lovely outing!

SamSam is too pooped to stay awake. While he sleeps, JJ and I open the pop-up tent in the spare room and grab all the library books for him to read, while I do some quiet reading of my own on the sofa bed. 20 Minutes of bliss!

Devotions and Impromptu Slide
I don't let Sam sleep too long, as I want him to have a longer sleep after lunch with JJ. We don't often play in the spare room, so it's nice to spend a bit more time there.

We read today's devotion which is about the millions of stars in the sky, and how God made them all. How wonderful God is!

We read a library book, but the boys want to roll around on the bed. Time for some physical activity!

I take JJ's mattress and rest it against the sofabed to make a slide. After a bit of experimentation we find that a glossy supermarket bag makes a great toboggan to ride down the slide! That's another 15 minutes of sliding fun!

SamSam is not so keen on the sliding, and he suggests getting out the playdough.

Playdough has to be one of the best inventions for kids. My boys can play very happily for an hour with it. The secret is you have to play with them and give them new ideas on how to play. My kids especially enjoy it when I play alongside them - whatever the activity may be.

But I find also that children need to learn how to play sometimes! They're like little sponges - once they learn from you, they will emulate what you've taught them by themselves.


I bought a cheap playdough kit from Kmart which has a few little cutters and plates, a cupcake mould and other little shape moulds. It was only about $7! I also have some little beads in the shape of hearts and stars which they really like to press into the dough. Small birthday cake candles from the $2 shop are fantastic for making little birthday cakes, and ice cream sticks are also quite nifty.

We have the Playdoh brand of playdough. It is a little pricey, but I don't allow them to mix colours, and I make sure we put the dough away once play is finished so that it doesn't dry up. This all means that the playdough lasts for ages - about five months - before I have to buy more pots. A pretty cheap investment!

Lunch is peanut butter and jam sandwiches. The boys help to spread the peanut butter with a butter knife each. They're not super good at it, but it this helps to promote independence!



The whole family goes down for a nap (while I type away furiously at the computer) and I get a few minutes rest before JJ is up again.

I remake the slide, SamSam wakes up too, and they share a box of sultanas in two bowls which makes them very happy.

I get out the guitar and JJ and leads our singing with the Alphabet song and then a Winnie the Pooh song medley. He gets out the percussion instruments and gives the harmonica to SamSam.

It's 2:50pm and the boys are getting feral. I take them to TWO playgrounds where they climb, spin, slide, swing, play in the sand and run for two hours, and by the end, their mum is more pooped than they are!

Dinner is beef noodle soop, delish! We eat really early, so the boys get to go ride their bikes around the balcony with Dad for an hour (they'll be sleeping real well tonight!). Fruit cups are for dessert.

Showers, and then milk and milo next to mummy on the sofa while we read our books. Goodnight sweethearts!